The presidential candidate Pete Buttigieg was on a podcast I listened to and he said that how people feel about you is based largely on how you make them feel about themselves.
Its so simple. So obvious. Duh.
But I think I’ve never comprehended this. Or haven’t sufficiently valued it.
If I apply this principle to specific incidents in my past, I will learn something. That I made people feel bad about themselves. Ok that seems known. No big revelation.
I feel like there’s something past this that interests me more. Not able to get there or grasp it.